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Your Child's Sexuality
« on: April 29, 2016, 09:26:43 PM »
When my wife and I have a son; we've decided to push him to be gay. But not the stereotypical gay type where it's all pink and talking super feminine and not the overly butch hairy sasquatch gay either. A cross between the two.

We will tell him we will always support him if he likes boy and wants a cock in his bed. We will take him to pride events and parades but also heavy metal concerts.

The day we catch him Looking at straight porn, kissing girls instead of boys is the day he will be screamed at until everyone has a splitting stress migraine. If he keeps up the heterosexual bullshit then he will be disowned and booted out of the house.

If we have a girl then we won't care what she does and will not be against nor support her sexual orientation at all. Girls are all touchy feely with each other anyway so there's no point in recognizing or respecting their sexuality. It's best to just love your daughter and support her but just not her sexuality; that she is not really brave or anything special for having the "courage" to be herself because really? When was the last time there was a news article about about a girl being disowned for being gay? Or being told they won't be served for being gay? Only boys sexuality in society is put out under the microscope and analyzed really.
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Re: Your Child's Sexuality
« Reply #1 on: April 29, 2016, 11:04:26 PM »
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Re: Your Child's Sexuality
« Reply #2 on: April 30, 2016, 11:17:46 AM »
Quite the opposite for me, no hommy behaviour allowed.



In all seriousness, I am not a moronic dictator so my son can be whatever he wants to be when he grows up, even though i would not be comfortable with him being gay, i'd never let him know that.
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Re: Your Child's Sexuality
« Reply #3 on: April 30, 2016, 03:32:55 PM »
Seriously though i would never treat my son like that. i would love
And support him and my daughter whether they are gay or straight. I just wanted to
illustrate two points: (a) how unbalanced of a person you'd have to be to treat your
Daughter and son differently like that or at all for that matter.
(B) as foolish and abusive as it sounded for a parent to act like that towards
Their son for being straight its just as bad or worse even to act like that if he's gay. because
Not only would he have to suffer the hurt of losing his parents love but he'd have to take
that on while dealing with it from so many others in society as well.

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Re: Your Child's Sexuality
« Reply #4 on: April 30, 2016, 05:53:22 PM »
When my wife and I have a son; we've decided to push him to be gay. But not the stereotypical gay type where it's all pink and talking super feminine and not the overly butch hairy sasquatch gay either. A cross between the two.

We will tell him we will always support him if he likes boy and wants a cock in his bed. We will take him to pride events and parades but also heavy metal concerts.

The day we catch him Looking at straight porn, kissing girls instead of boys is the day he will be screamed at until everyone has a splitting stress migraine. If he keeps up the heterosexual bullshit then he will be disowned and booted out of the house.

If we have a girl then we won't care what she does and will not be against nor support her sexual orientation at all. Girls are all touchy feely with each other anyway so there's no point in recognizing or respecting their sexuality. It's best to just love your daughter and support her but just not her sexuality; that she is not really brave or anything special for having the "courage" to be herself because really? When was the last time there was a news article about about a girl being disowned for being gay? Or being told they won't be served for being gay? Only boys sexuality in society is put out under the microscope and analyzed really.


You can not "shape" sexuality. You can raise him as open-minded as possible, but his final choice between dicks or pussies will have to do more with deep, complex subconscious structures developed during childhood which you won't understand completely (they're related to the way in which we go through the Oedipo and Elektra complex, hence it's impossible to "shape" our sex preference on purpose).   Trying to oppress deliberately a child/teen's sexuality, nevermind if gay or straight, could result in an identity disorder (which is a quite painful thing to live with and almost impossible to treat even with pspychiatry), severe depression, T.O.C, suicide.

On a side note, we finish "shaping" our identity during adolescence and we do it by opposing to the adult world and the family commandments. So if you become a straight hater, it's quite likely (99% guaranteed) that your son will be 100 straight and gay-hater. You sound bitter and resentful towards straight people, maybe you've suffered from bullying or aggression for your sexuality. I advise you to talk about those thoughts and memories in a therapy room before you become a father and fuck it up big time with an innocent child.

I'll post a video which pretty much depicts how a child whose sexuality is not "the standard one" suffers because of the social/family disdain:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CnOJgDW0gPI
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Re: Your Child's Sexuality
« Reply #5 on: May 10, 2016, 04:08:47 PM »
Look, our son is going to be forced to be gay. We will post playgirl posters up on his walls and tell him that we will be very disappointed if he dates girls and that it would be very selfish if he doesn't suck cock. He will be screamed at and hit until he agrees to be gay.
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« Reply #6 on: May 10, 2016, 10:06:09 PM »
I remember now that a couple of years ago you posted something about allowing children to watch porn since their early childhood. The only one who agreed with you was NOT a parent and NOT an adult himself, cause he had a fake profile.

The thing that worries me is that you seem to feel an urge to disturb a child's mind, to commit transgressions against the established social norms. If you force him to watch (gay) porn and you don't allow him to express his chosen sexuality, what's next? I knew of a man who didnt care about social norms and who perverted his daughter's mind with incestuous porn, his name was Woody Allen. Do you want to be the gay version?

Seriously, I insist on you visiting a psychologist. He/she will make you understand the kind of bullshit you're talking about and will also prevent a potencial misfortune.

With that kind of upbringing you'll either bring to this world a potencial serial killer or a potencial suicide victim. Cause you'll generate something in his mind called "double speech": you will tell him that he should be gay, but he'll start kindergarten, and then school and then high school and society will tell him the opposite. Double speech ends up in serious cases of double personality disorder or schizophrenia. I know my good shit about it, cause I studied pedagody and Ive been a teacher for 5 years at primary, high school and college.



Watch this film, it pretty much depicts the outcome of such an upbringing and the "double speech" problem: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9SNvuq7bULo
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Re: Your Child's Sexuality
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Re: Your Child's Sexuality
« Reply #8 on: May 11, 2016, 04:55:48 AM »
I know you won't believe me but the point of this whole post is to illustrate how ridiculous homophobic oppressive parents are.

I mean I would prefer my son to be gay but if he turns out straight then I'd deal with it. I only want him to remember me as a comfort and protector.

As far as children looking at porn is concerned; all I said was that in Japan children watch cartoons with elements in them that are far more sexual than North America. For this reason, according to studies, the rate of Sexually Transmitted Infections (everything from gaunarehia to HIV to AIDS) is significantly lower (in their high schools, colleges and the general public) because sex is not such a taboo thing. It is something touched on and explored to some degree consistently throughout their lives and so it's not such a big rebellious statement.
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Re: Your Child's Sexuality
« Reply #9 on: May 11, 2016, 04:38:49 PM »
 :no  na na na! I remember quite well that thread, it was all about "children should watch porn".

But... I feel relieved at knowing that your goal was to illustrate that point. You did it quite well  :thumbsup:  I suspect (I'm not sure) that my brother is gay and my parents have always oppressed that, now he's got a personality disorder, which is thought to be the result of denying to yourself who you really are and well, it ends up in other issues


(however, consider that the saying "like father, like son" is true. We try to raise children as similar to us as possible cause they're our footprint in the world, in history, and thanks to our offpring we've got that fake sense of "everlastingness". So if you want your child to be gay, it's quite possible that the reason why is that you are gay yourself, and not bisexual. Some men think they are bisexual but the truth is that socially they feel more comfortable next to a woman and dont dare to get out of "the other closet". I insist, finding a neutral and objective place where to talk about these things (therapy) would do you good
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Re: Your Child's Sexuality
« Reply #10 on: May 11, 2016, 08:52:08 PM »
I'm not uncomfortable with being with a man. I was in a five year monogemous relationship with a man who I lived with and was engaged to and introduced to all my family. He was HIV positive which I knew but I stayed anyway because I loved him and wanted that life at the time.

Things changed for me and I found myself wanting a family. The reason why I prefer my son to turn out gay is due to all the hatred and suppression woman are throwing at males today as well as the fact that everything is so damned expensive now. With a guy he would never need to worry about children plus gay sex is a lot more vigourous and active and thus more fun.

With woman, sex is more intimate.
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Re: Your Child's Sexuality
« Reply #11 on: May 11, 2016, 11:44:38 PM »
Umm.. Im not sure I understand how by being gay you save money  :lol:

and on a side note "gay sex is more fun than..." SSSHHHHH you shouldn't imagine your son having sex! This is like when my mother says "uRRRGHHHH look at those dikes holding hands, how repulsive! I know she finds it repulsive because she imagines gay people having sex. And people should never picture others, como what may, in that *circumstance*. it's equally repulsive to me to picture my parents or really old people having sex, nevermind their sexuality.

well, that's how it works to me :P

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Re: Your Child's Sexuality
« Reply #12 on: May 12, 2016, 03:26:30 AM »
It is guaranteed to be cheaper in the sense that children are not a possibility with gay sex. So there is one risk that is eliminated.
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Re: Your Child's Sexuality
« Reply #13 on: May 12, 2016, 02:13:20 PM »
What you save on kids, you spend on lube.
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« Reply #14 on: May 12, 2016, 05:05:56 PM »
What you save on kids, you spend on lube.

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