yes, it's not only "papers"
I see it the other way round: if they were " only papers", more people would get married. but they're not "only papers" that's why few people get married.
Marriage for all of you guys is nit just a fucking paper wahaha!
Try to have tha analogy of marriage with education: For legality purpose
You study and have a diploma so that you have a proof to present to whatever company you want to work with.
You can study alone and learn many things alone, but if you don't have a fucking diploma then who willa ceept you, ryt?
Same in marriage, you can love each other, have babies without that ryt? But it's made for lagality purpose! it's a tile that you own the person or better you own the property of the person hahaha, but that's true, where you can use to sue your partner for aldutery, or whereever you can use that for legal issues!
It's a paper like your diploam in school or your land/car title to avoid trouble.
Danmak! hahaha I'm so happy to read your post! Just that, just happy. But I don't want to hear it that way, when you are getting pessimistic of LOVE! huhuhu
but then if there's really none, then so be it! the only important thing is to keep going until the last breath is taken haha!