life has fucked me over

[brownstones_train]

yep.. its offical at 21 ive left university, im unemployed, overweight, lost some hair and im heavily wrapped up in my own worries.. to top it up ive had a fight with my friend too that leaves me friendless..
i spend time in my room because theres nowhere elese to go.. can life get any worse.. i tried applying for jobs but all they ask for is experience study is really not essential this is messed man above all family think im mental, unsociable, and im being joked about everywhere i turn..

i hate my life yep call me an attention seeker thats all i will ever be probably

[gnrfreek]

i'm sry for u. reallt am. it is a good thing to pour out ur feelings here on this forum. if u copy paste it to THE JUNGLE, more ppl will reply, and will help you  out with some suggestions.
this was my suggestion, i'll think of more, but this is what came to me when i finnished reading your post

[big dumb sex]

You're 21, your life is still in front of you.  A job will come your way eventually, even if you've studied for a long time you'll probably still have to work your way up somewhere.  

And if you are overweight and spending all your time in your room, how about going out for a walk?  It's free, could help clear your head and good exercise.

Try talking to your family and friend about how you are feeling.  Then at least they'll know why you are out of sorts.

[Nickotine]

Life's a bitch and then you die, so go volunteer in Africa  .

[Karin_Sixx]

yep.. its offical at 21 ive left university, im unemployed, overweight, lost some hair and im heavily wrapped up in my own worries.. to top it up ive had a fight with my friend too that leaves me friendless..
i spend time in my room because theres nowhere elese to go.. can life get any worse.. i tried applying for jobs but all they ask for is experience study is really not essential this is messed man above all family think im mental, unsociable, and im being joked about everywhere i turn..

i hate my life yep call me an attention seeker thats all i will ever be probably

Quit complaining, there's loads of stuff you can do, life has not fucked you over, things could be a hell of a lot worse.
Western people bitching about how shit their lives are is appaulling.
Go out there, embrace life, get a job, earn some money, you'll get some of your self respect back.
Who gives a fuck what other people think about you, fuck them, you dont need to associate with such people.
If you, and i mean you! think your over weight, join a gym, thats what i did, you meet people there, get chatting, people are friendly if you give them a chance.
Right now your defence is right up, your not letting anyone in, everyone doesnt hate you.
LIFE IS NOT A REHEARSAL  

[SubZero]

Overweight?! Do something about it then rather than complaining. For fucks sake.

[Rock Diva]

The only thing I hate more than fat and bald people is people who feel sorry for themselves all day.

Go fucking volunteer in Africa, cunt brain.

[Blainebailey]

do some excercise and get a job even if it is in a shop or something but everyone has to start somewhere

[irishaxl]

i cant believe you're complaining that you're overweight

mm i wonder what the fuck you can ever do about that??

[nemo]

a vending machine stole 50p from me today, and I have to dye my hair to get it the shade of blue I want, life is so unfair

[sunnyp]

I know how you felt because I was in exactly the same situation but worse about a year ago. I left Uni with a good degree but fucked my knee up and couldn't walk for about 2 months, I couldn't do any sport for 6 months (exercise is my life). I got really depressed and frustrated especially with that cold horrible winter that we just had.

I was given this piece of advice and it is so very true: the only thing that you can rely on in life is change.

Your circumstances will change and you will look back and laugh. In the meantime I advise you look at some of the pictures of downtown Baghdad, or starving kids in Africa and you will unfortunately feel much better about our life because there is always someone worse off than you.

[charlottedk]

Edit BP

warning to ban

[Karin_Sixx]

thats a little harsh talking about your friend, surely if she wanted to tell us this she would have posted it herself?

[charlottedk]

im sorry angel

[nemo]

edit bp

well, you're just a wonderful friend aren't you? tell 10,000 people all your 'friend's' problems, she's lucky to have you...

[sunnyp]

Change the topic title to 'my friend has fucked me over'.

[irishaxl]

wouldnt want to be charlotte right now

[fallenxpunk]

wouldnt want to be charlotte right now

its probably the same person trying to be a dramaqueen, fuck you    

[fallenxpunk]

yep.. its offical at 21 ive left university, im unemployed, overweight, lost some hair and im heavily wrapped up in my own worries.. to top it up ive had a fight with my friend too that leaves me friendless..
i spend time in my room because theres nowhere elese to go.. can life get any worse.. i tried applying for jobs but all they ask for is experience study is really not essential this is messed man above all family think im mental, unsociable, and im being joked about everywhere i turn..

i hate my life yep call me an attention seeker thats all i will ever be probably

Dont worry about it man, it'll all get better. So what?? You left university, and you can always go back if you feel thats the only choice you have. And i dont think being overwheight is a problem anyways. Who gives a fuck what other people think?? Loosing hair isn't the end of the world either, you know? You'll probably have to get used to it for some time but then it wont bother you anymore. And fuck your so called "friend" too because if he really was your friend he'd try to be by your side during this time, not fight with you. Just to make it all worth, join a band, get a crappy job at some crappy supermarket as a bager boy, go back to school, join the football team and you'll see that things will start sorting out for you.

[BP]

im sorry angel

what is your problem?  don't be so ignorant     keep other people's issues in which you can have little understanding about and keep it to yourself.   -BP

[Slashist]

hey man, life can fucking suck sometimes, but it will almost always sort itself out, you just have to put some effort into it.

feeling sorry for yourself is easy, but its the worst thing you can do if you want things to change

[Kilamite]

Bah stop lazing around and trying to make an excuse for everything.

You need a job? Apply for somewhere then. I don't need any qualifications to work in John Lewis (www.johnlewis.com) and some of my colleges are nearly on £18,000 a year doing retail!

You dropped out of uni? Who's fault is that? Why did you drop out? If you can't be arsed with the course, then change course. If you can't be arsed with uni, uni isn't for everyone.

Overweight? Man, my dick is too big for my body, so I eat more to balance it out. I'm sure you can do something that's the reverse called DIETING.

You sit in your room all day feeling sorry for yourself? Lost cause.

[Slashist]

Overweight? Man, my dick is too big for my body, so I eat more to balance it out. I'm sure you can do something that's the reverse called DIETING.

       

[Mires]

Instead of looking at the bad look at the good.

[ycagwyw]

Instead of looking at the bad look at the good.

yeah, that's one person used to need   look at the front  dude

[ChAfFeE123]

Isnt everyone on this forum just soo nice eh?  Give him a break.  Maybe he could be doing stuff instead of posting shit about feeling sorry for himself on the internetr but can't you guys just say anything nice.   Inconsiterate cunts.

[Slashist]

there's lots of nice stuff up there, and good advice, more than i thought there would be